tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15200660.post739843534644086161..comments2023-05-16T07:14:06.396-04:00Comments on The Revelations of Aaron-Carl: Like an AdultAaron-Carlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15388398772547667198noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15200660.post-8805631920599432742007-06-14T14:45:00.000-04:002007-06-14T14:45:00.000-04:00agreed.. i feel the same way melva.... i can total...agreed.. i feel the same way melva.... i can totally leave this alone... its less stress/drama in mylife, ya know.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15200660.post-61130445250604257522007-06-12T22:30:00.000-04:002007-06-12T22:30:00.000-04:00Sorry, I meant that you don't need your girlfriend...Sorry, I meant that you don't need your girlfriend to fight your battles and she should not represent you. Speak for yourself or don't speak at all. GF, you need not to respond I don't care what was said about you, because your just adding fuel to the fire! Can we get a What! What! (LOL)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15200660.post-83016075444686160102007-06-12T22:28:00.000-04:002007-06-12T22:28:00.000-04:00You know what, you all need to just chill and grow...You know what, you all need to just chill and grow up. Todd, it's me Melva, I expect more from you and although I don't know your girlfried, just squash it already! It's silly really that your friendship has ended on some bullcrap, but obviously emotions run too deep. But your girl, should represent you, that makes you look bad and don't go there and stoop to any level because this is high school stuff.<BR/><BR/>I am the mediator and I am saying today THIS STOPS!!!<BR/><BR/>Todd you stop, girlfriend, you stop and AC you stop right now. I don't want to see any other messages regarding this or ALL OF YOU GUYS will see my ugly side. (smile)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15200660.post-76808080681023548332007-06-11T16:56:00.000-04:002007-06-11T16:56:00.000-04:00FUCK THE HATERS... jealousy is a bitch....FUCK THE HATERS... jealousy is a bitch....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15200660.post-68995040169307826232007-06-11T01:50:00.000-04:002007-06-11T01:50:00.000-04:00Wow. Why is Wallshaker Records not the subject of ...Wow. Why is Wallshaker Records not the subject of reality show?<BR/><BR/>It has all the required drama, and I know who could write the soundtrack. :p<BR/><BR/>Don't let the haters get you down Aaron. Just keep giving the world your gifts!<BR/><BR/>lots of love, <BR/>AdamAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15200660.post-40257294751578096272007-06-09T15:35:00.000-04:002007-06-09T15:35:00.000-04:00It's funny you're back. And actually, I'm glad yo...It's funny you're back. And actually, I'm glad you're here. Why? Because shortly after I wrote my last comment (the one you just responded to), I said wait... Let me go back and actually RE-READ some of the stuff I said. And when I did, I noticed that I had in fact mentioned your name, and your past/previous condition. And yep, I also made reference to it again, when Todd said I was "too much for him to ever handle." And for the sake of keeping my word, I shall not repeat what I wrote here verbatim. HOWEVER, I WILL say this... I still never said anything malicious to or about you. And even in my mentioning your name/condition, I never used EITHER of those in an intentional bad way. <BR/><BR/>I've admitted my wrongdoings in the very same blog that I mentioned your name in -- which ironically, is the same blog that I deleted. And again, I deleted it because I've learned from experience that you cannot ARGUE with an angry person -- they aren't capable of reasoning... So for the sake of arguing with you two ANGRY people, I just removed the blog. <BR/><BR/>When you first popped up online and requested that I "keep your name out of my mouth," I responded with NO PROBLEM. And when I said that I made NO reference to your name or whatever, I was in fact referring to the current blog -- since that was the one that wasn't deleted. <BR/><BR/>YOU, on the other hand, already know that I wasn't "tearing you apart" with my words. You acknowledge my words directly in your FIRST response, when you said that while my statements about you WERE TRUE, they were not COMPLETE. And YOU filled in the blanks. <BR/><BR/>Now don't get me wrong. I understand that NOBODY likes to see their past exposed -- especially if it's a past that they're not particularly proud of. I understand that completely. But since we obviously can't control anyone but ourselves, WE (yes, WE) need to control HOW WE HANDLE the situations that arise. <BR/><BR/>...Which brings me back to this blog. You've stated that me and Todd might not get along, but you have nothing to do with it. But then out of your frustration, you e-mail my MySpace account with hate-filled comments like "You suck dick, you fucking fag?" Where the hell did THAT come from? I repeat... YOUR FRUSTRATION. Your frustration over your conclusions about ME and what you've heard. Because just like I don't know you, dear... YOU DON'T KNOW ME. You only know that Todd has told you -- and from HIS frustration, I'm sure you've gotten a pretty different view from the truth. I repeat: YOU DON'T KNOW ME. <BR/><BR/>If Todd would've introduced us, we would've probably gotten along. But it was HE who had no faith in that. And YES, he claims he has no faith because of some things that I've done in MY past out of my insecurities. YES, I did things and said things to Todd that I'm not proud of. And while I've apologized repeatedly for them, AND have made GREAT changes within myself as a result (for those of us who are talking about overcoming their PASTS...), Todd is the one who refused to believe me. Maybe the wounds are too fresh. Who knows? <BR/><BR/>But did I bash HIM for getting onto MY blog and explaining "his side" of the story? No, I did not. Did I curse him out for airing MY dirty laundry over the internet? Nope. Sure didn't... I didn't get "up in arms" when he discussed certain actions of mine that I'm not proud of -- like fighting Mel, or trying to hit his friend Shannon, or having a "the boy is mine" conversation with Lisa -- and before I continue, I'm ONLY mentioning these things again for TWO reasons... <BR/><BR/>FIRST, because Todd took the liberty of airing this out over the internet himself -- maliciously, I might add! He brought this shit up to hurt me -- so basically I could "see how it feels." ...and SECOND, because I've humbly apologized for ALL OF THESE ACTIONS. I went to ALL THREE people and apologized HUMBLY, like an ADULT. I TOLD Lisa that I shouldn't have approached her like I did. I explained my insecurity to Shannon and Lisa both -- and even the fight I had with MEL was over insecurities. I SINCERELY said I was sorry to ALL of them, and ASKED for their forgiveness. <BR/><BR/>MEL found it in his heart to forgive me -- even after being put in the hospital because of me. SHANNON found it in her heart to forgive me -- even after I so childishly chased her down with my car. LISA found it in HER heart to forgive me -- even though I came at her like a jealous person. EACH ONE OF THEM forgave me and we've ALL since moved on. <BR/><BR/>I've learned valuable lessons from EACH of these mistakes -- I'm human. And yes, you can say that I've overcome a lot of those issues that made me so insecure in the first place. <BR/><BR/>If TODD refuses to accept or believe that I've learned from my mistakes, that's his problem. Even when he first told me our friendship was over, I was tempted to "get childish" and make things awful for him -- especially when he said he was coming to get his things from my house. And WHAT HAPPENED INSTEAD??? After we began to exchange words, I stopped the problem from escalating... I called Todd myself and said, don't worry. I'm NOT gonna do anything to hurt your stuff... I initially reacted out of anger, but I had to stop myself and be AN ADULT about the situation... If Todd wanted his stuff, it's HIS. I even asked him if he really thought I'd do something evil to him, after everything we've been through. And HIS response? "I don't know Aaron... I don't know you anymore... I don't think I EVER knew you..." I accepted his answer for what it was. I wasn't gonna try and convince him that I was a changed person -- I figured that maybe in time, if he'd bothered to check up on me, he'd notice for himself. <BR/><BR/>So although he spoke to me on the phone with an angry tone, I allowed him that. I let him have his say... I listened to him as he gloated about how GOOD his life was without me -- even though it hurt me to hear those words, I allowed him his say, because I felt he NEEDED to get all of this off his chest. <BR/><BR/>After he came to my house and got his turntables and mixer, I asked him politely to come back and get the rest of his things, so Mel and I could park in our garage again. Has he made any arrangements with me? NO. Has he called me for any other reason except to threaten me and send me childish text messages like "you're STILL a piece of shit, you fat fuck?" NO. <BR/><BR/>Why would Todd send me a text message with those words? Why would YOU send me a harrassing e-mail message like "you suck dick, you fucking fag?" It doesn't sound to me like EITHER OF YOU are willing to handle this situation like adults. Again, I have DELETED the offending blogs -- regardless of my personal feelings. I chalked this all up to experience, and I'm REALLY trying to move on here. <BR/><BR/>But please don't mistake my lack of retaliation for weakness. I WILL NOT tolerate being harrassed by EITHER of you. I will not tolerate being threatened or mistreated. Now you've made your point. I've allowed you your say. Hopefully you've said it all, because right now, I'm finished listening. I'm FINISHED playing the "tit for tat" game. <BR/><BR/>I've lost a very good friend, someone whom I've grown to love as a person very much. I understand that part of it was my own doing. I accept that. I've battled it. I've learned some valuable lessons here, and through it all, I've learned to forgive myself. Yes, the truth hurts. It hurts me to re-live some of these memories, because I can't believe that I was "down so low." BUT instead of taking the "low" road, I wear my wounds with PRIDE, because like Erick and his prior drug addiction, or like YOU and your previous self-mutilation, I'VE OVERCOME THESE THINGS. I can be a better friend to the NEXT person I meet. <BR/><BR/>That's all I have to say about this matter. You are free to think whatever you want to. The truth has been aired -- on all sides. I've admitted my wrongs. I've atoned for them. But I refuse to wallow in this mess any longer. It's behind me. In the name of Jesus, AMEN. I'm done with it. Move on, NOW.Aaron-Carlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15388398772547667198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15200660.post-76208356666414751572007-06-09T13:05:00.000-04:002007-06-09T13:05:00.000-04:00For all of you who never read his first blog, he d...For all of you who never read his first blog, he did in fact state my name several times and tear me apart personally. His response to me is false and a cover-up from the truth. Why not just tell me your sorry and admit that you were wrong instead of lying. Damn you frustate me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15200660.post-45257899657952368832007-06-09T00:41:00.000-04:002007-06-09T00:41:00.000-04:00Good man AC. :)Good man AC. :)Minimal Basshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06656003580259394064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15200660.post-15263812417572521742007-06-07T22:12:00.000-04:002007-06-07T22:12:00.000-04:00For starters, you are right... I do NOT know you....For starters, you are right... I do NOT know you. And furthermore, I don't have (nor have I ever had) any intentions on bad-mouthing you. Whatever your past or present may be, that's you. I only went by what Todd told me. <BR/><BR/>Understand that I don't personally have a problem with you. And for what it's worth, please know that I do NOT mention your name. When I mentioned any reference to you, I referred to you as Todd's GF. You may notice this in the blog. <BR/><BR/>One final note... You (or Todd) really didn't have to bring this "war of words" to the Internet. Yes, I express my feelings and happenings on my blog -- and that's just it. MY blog. You've requested that I "keep your name out of my mouth." Not a problem. Your name hasn't been mentioned thus far, and I really have no intentions on doing so. What happened between Todd and I is one thing. I feel no need to drag other people into the mix. It's not neccessary.<BR/><BR/>Finally, I've even taken the liberty to delete the previous entry -- or at least the parts that Todd felt the need to respond to. Again, not that this has anything to do with you, BUT... I'm just saying. I've done the adult thing and walked away from the situation. Please advise your boyfriend to do the same. If our friendship is over, it's over. Move on.Aaron-Carlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15388398772547667198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15200660.post-72911122626782199912007-06-07T21:32:00.000-04:002007-06-07T21:32:00.000-04:00First of all you don't know me and I don't appreci...First of all you don't know me and I don't appreciate being bad mouth on the internet. You and Todd might not get along but I have nothing to do with it. Although the statements you made about me are true, they are not complete. I am on medication for my condition and I no longer mutilate myself. Everyone has a past they are not proud of and have over come. If you dont want pasts to be exposed, then why do that to someone who never did anything to you. Please keep my name out of your mouth.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com